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Posted 30 September 2008 - 10:21 AM

I have lived in Cebu for around 3 years and met many of the expats. There are a few good guys here but I have to say the majority are not worth knowing. Philippines seems to be a refuge for people running away from problems or life in general. People that can not make it back home.

A while ago I made the mistake of befriending one such guy who at first seemed to be intelligent and genuine.

I have since found out that this guy moves from one person to another leaving a trail of destruction in terms of relationships, abuse, broken promises and destroyed lives.

Maybe he has no real life of his own so he likes to get into others people's lives and mess them around just to prove he can. He thinks he is a psychologist and will tell you so. What he loves is to mess around in people's heads playing mind games.

If you have a girl friend he will try to take her away from you. Not because he actually wants her for himself but simply to prove to himself that he can. Some he will have sex with and others he will just make problems between the couple feeding them any personal information that might have been confided between two mates to cause them to break up. He even fabricates blatant lies.

I will not talk about how he has messed around in my life and with my friends but here are some examples of how he works.

There was a waitress is gecko bar when it was still just a resto-bar. She had a job and a serious Australian fiancée. This guy worked on her drinking at geckos every day and finally arranging to meet her at Julianos after work. Eventually they would go out more and more. He stated to teach her to binge drink.

He then introduced her to shabu. He told me that once a girl is on that they are under his control. He made her resign her job. He told her that she would have to choose between her fiancé and him. I asked him why he was making her break up with her fiancée as he had not intention of marrying her himself and he said to me that he just feels like that and can not help himself (something to that effect).

I actually do not know the end of that story as I stopped associating with him soon after except that just a month or so later he is no longer with her and staying with a girl who he had been seeing at the same time anyway.

He has got this new girl on Shabu also. I know this girl and I can see her whole life collapsing around her. She said to me two nights ago that she had lost everything.

This guy also physically and mentally abuses women. When he is with a woman he controls her forbidding her to talk to other guys. The current girl has a computer and internet but he says she is not allowed to go online.

The above are just a couple of examples of this guy. Not even the tip of the iceberg. He is known to an increasing number of foreigners that want to see this skum deported.

How to recognize him.

He is Australian and 34 years old. He has lived in Cebu for around 3 years. He is around 6' tall with fair complexion. He has ear rings.

In the past he has associated more with foreigners but increasingly he drinks at local establishments and hangs with locals.

He is a chronic alcoholic who if he has slept at all will starting drinking early in the morning and continue to the early hours of the morning without any break.

He is also a shabu addict. One look at his left arm says it all. Lots of deep cuts requiring stitches which I am told is the tell tail sing of an addict on bad trip. I have not seen him for a few weeks but I am told that now he has painted his toe nails black.

This combination of alcohol and drugs is making him increasingly unpredictable and violent. I have seen him first hand and heard numerous stories of him switching like a Dr Jackal / Mr Hide. His abuse is almost always directed at women. He never fights guys.

He is disliked by most bar girls around Cebu who he uses to obtain shabu. He turns on them with out warning sometimes physically abuses them for no apparent reason.

He was living in Cebu but recently transferred to Mactan.

Almost forgot to mention. He has a thing for young girls. He is always looking for slim petite young girls. I have seen him with girls as young as 14. What makes it worse is his desire not only to abuse them sexually but also corrupt them with alcohol and drugs.

This is a guy to avoid and hopefully karma will come to him soon.

I am adding some pics of him i have been given

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 10:57 AM

Thanks for the warning. He sounds like a real psycho. Guys like this often get what they deserve. Let's hope so.

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 11:07 AM

I want to edit my post and fix up the bad grammar and change a couple of small things but can not see how.

There are a few members here that know this guy and I am sure they will soon be adding comments.

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 11:11 AM

I am sure it felt good to get all that venom out of your system. I am not sure that you expect anything from this forum except our understanding. You got burnt by someone who you believed to be friend. It has happened to most of us and it does not matter what country you are in. When you say the majority of expats are not worth knowing I start wondering which expats you know. You can tell a lot about a man by the company he keeps. Here's hoping you choose better companions from now on.

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 4:40 PM

How to recognize him.

He is Australian and 34 years old. He has lived in Cebu for around 3 years. He is around 6’ tall with fair complexion. He has ear rings.


That describes a lot of foreigners here:



What color hair ?
How long is his hair cut ?
Mustache ? Sideburns ?

What names does he go by ?

Does he have any tattoos ?

Does he always wear hats or shirts with logos ( some guys have a limited warbrobe )

How much do you think he wieghs ?

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 5:31 PM

That describes a lot of foreigners here:
What color hair ?
How long is his hair cut ?
Mustache ? Sideburns ?

What names does he go by ?

Does he have any tattoos ?

Does he always wear hats or shirts with logos ( some guys have a limited warbrobe )

How much do you think he wieghs ?


He's going to be entering the "Filipino Justice System" I presume? Best thing for him really.

I will say this about that, if a married/attached woman will succumb to his supposed allure, she is just a guilty as he is.

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 5:42 PM

I will say this about that, if a married/attached woman will succumb to his supposed allure, she is just a guilty as he is.



There are very innocent, gullible girls straight out of the province who could succumb to his allure.

Where does his income from from Philippines Escape ?
Does he have a business here ?

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 5:46 PM

messing with someones woman .. successfully or not ,anywhere in the world, is a good way to end up with a very serious leaking problem .. it'll eventually catch up
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With a cheery smile and a wave of his hand he wandered off to an unknown land.

Not all those who wander are lost.


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Posted 30 September 2008 - 6:13 PM

Sadly, there are some low-lifes of every nationality, and in every country.

Anyone who is on shabu (or similar drugs) should be watched carefully, or kept away from, as that makes an unstable person even more so.

Sad that someone ruins others, but no doubt he will get his just deserts in due course.

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 6:26 PM

He's going to be entering the "Filipino Justice System" I presume? Best thing for him really.

I will say this about that, if a married/attached woman will succumb to his supposed allure, she is just a guilty as he is.



There are very innocent, gullible girls straight out of the province who could succumb to his allure.

Where does his income from from Philippines Escape ?
Does he have a business here ?



Yes, that's true there are innocent, gullible girls straight out from the province who may succumb. But if she is married/attached, then its a different story. Its not like trigonometry or rocket science to know right from wrong.

A man who is confident in himself and his relationship should not feel threatened by a dog like this guy! Oddly enough, in the Phils its usually the women who cause problems by going after a married man. This is because many Filipino men can't resist the temptation.

Edited by Archer, 30 September 2008 - 6:35 PM .





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